Reviews

This podcast is informative, relatable and validating for those who have been in these relationships. Sometimes after an abusive relationship ends you have been so heavily gaslit and traumatised that you still question whether you made the right decision in leaving them and wonder if you should go back to them. Hearing these people’s experiences makes me feel less alone and also continues to educate me. Everyone who comes on this show is really brave and chad has done a fantastic job at creating a safe space for these victims to tell their story.

While it is absolutely horrible that so many people go through this, it’s very validating for those of us with this experience to hear other peoples stories. Thank you for helping to tell them.

Jaws ex is like the guy I’m currently trying to leave. Paranoia and off the wall accusations. So relatable.

Now that I’m healing, I love this podcast! At first it was overwhelming but my wounds were too fresh. Once I realized how similar our stories are, it became educational instead of painful. Our stories have so many similarities but most important, we should no longer feel so alone after tuning in. Thank you!

This podcast has truly been life changing for me. I found this podcast nearly a year ago after leaving an abusive relationship and I listened every single day for months until I heard every available episode. It's that compelling and that good. I had been researching narcissism and narcissistic abuse for nearly 5 years and nothing came close to illustrating the toxicity of these relationships. This podcast feels like a beacon of light in a very dark place. As a psychologist, I thought I had a decent understanding of narcissism and abuse dynamics, but after discovering I had survived a narcissistic relationship myself, I realized how insidious this abuse reallly is. The survivors' stories on this podcast detail the nuances of manipulation within the narcissistic abuse dynamic and, for the first time, I felt completely understood - again and again as I listen I feel validated because I relate so much to the stories the survivors courageously share. Brandon does a phenomenal job giving the survivors space to share their stories with very little interruption. When he does interject, his questions are thoughtful and on point and he exudes understanding, compassion and support. He offers support off the podcast, as well, by graciously giving of his time to facilitate support groups for survivors. Listening to ths podcast has been very healing for me personally and has led me to feel better equipped professionally to help those who have endured this form of abuse. The impact of the work being done on this podcast to shed light on a critically important topic cannot be overstated. I am beyond grateful to have found this podcast and believe anyone, whether having survived such a relationship or not will benefit from listening. A+

Chad is amazing at helping the victim feel comfortable telling their stories. He is slow at interjecting which I appreciate. The only time he slows the dialogue down is to point out red flags or other helpful reflections to help the listeners and the victim see patterns. The empathy he shows his guests and how comfortable he makes them is impressive. He also finish's up with "repowering" the guest after they have just spilled out their guts. Diffidently a no judgement zone. Which is hard because they are admitting to mistakes and mostly naiveness that predators are out there. Great podcast. Riply mentioned a book she had and read and you seemed to be familiar with it. Can you share the title ? I had a hard time hearing the name and author.

This podcast is super helpful in allowing survivors come to grips with what happened to them, whilst informing people what the red flags look like and how to watch out for them. You don’t have to have been in a toxic relationship to appreciate this podcast; for those who who have crossed paths with a narcissist, it goes a long way to explain bizarre behaviour you may have encountered and why it’s pointless to try and explain why you don’t want to have anything to do with them any more; it’s better to just go no-contact. To say that people enjoy being stuck in a toxic relationship is victim-blaming and not at all helpful. Keep up the great work Brandon, maybe we’ll get to a point in the future where it’s studied in schools and young people are far less likely to end up in these situations from being better educated.

There are many helpful podcasts about narcissism. However, the majority of them offer advice and are missing real live stories from survivors of narcissistic abuse. Although the advice is relatable - the stories are relatable, relevant and REAL. Real survivors are given an opportunity to share their narrative from an unconditional, non-judgmental platform. Their stories hit home. Once I started listening - I was hooked. Their stories are my story. Thanks Chad for bringing a podcast that finally “gets it.”

Thank you for this podcast and the stories that are sometimes hard to tell. After 11 years of marriage, I finally learned last year what a narcissist was and I definitely had one. I have listened to my first podcast this morning and repeatedly said “Yes!! That’s happened to me too!” In the process of divorcing and I’ve already started the healing process. It’ll be a long slow road, but the abuse stops now! I am strong and I am worth every bit!

Dealing with a narcissist is super isolating and insulating. Thankful there are podcasts like this to connect survivors with support and an opportunity to share what has been suffered in silence. It is freeing and healing to share in a safe and non-exposing way. I heard a quote that I love that says “if we heal loudly, we save others from suffering quietly.”

This podcast is honestly just so amazing. Each person that shares their story is so honest and raw. I’m so happy I found this podcast... knowing I’m not alone is something that means so much to me. If you are a victim, or survivor of any type of abuse, listen to this podcast. Pick any episode and just listen. The bravery. The honesty. It’s amazing, and so helpful to me as I enter in my own healing journey. Thank you to the owner of this podcast for giving all of us abuse victims, a platform to share our truth. Forever grateful!

Rain’s story is MY STORY! I’m blown away that there is somebody else out there that has loved a very similar life to mine. I wish there was an opportunity to connect with Rain. Thank you for sharing! ~Angela

This podcast has truly helped me realize that I’m not alone and has helped me better understand what happened to me in my own past narcissistic relationships. Definitely would suggest this to anyone feeling misunderstood.

I think that if you’ve ever been in a toxic relationship, hearing others stories and background is key in the healing process.

This podcast is a great way to hear first hand the effects of a relationship with a narcissist or someone who has traits. A survivor feels confused and alone. It’s great to get not only confirmation from the stories but to get support through the Patreon group. Chad is truly a caring person who puts a lot of heart and hard work into a platform of healing for strangers he makes friends. I’m so thankful for this resource and the connections I’ve made.

I found this podcast during my journey of research trying to understand my husband better. Brandon and all of these amazing stories have been the driving strength I needed to leave. 15 years of a slow fade and verbal abuse but I am 3 months gone (ish) - we have a son so it’s hard- but I am doing it! Thank you Brandon! Thank you to every survivor for sharing- and helping so many- especially me. I will be forever grateful

I have been listening to this podcast for a couple months now, just about every single day steadily - listening to the stories. I am a survivor myself and recently gained courage to share my story as well. The podcast helps people to understand that these things are the effect of a mental disorder, that what happened to you is not your fault, and that you’re not crazy - and you’re not alone. In the midst of it all it feels embarrassing and shameful and .... lonely. You might even feel crazy. I did. Now that I’ve shared my story and listened to so many others and somehow resonated with each one although different - I don’t feel alone, I don’t feel crazy, and I feel empowered to live MY life: something I never used to truly believe was worth anything, or even possible.

I am loving these podcasts from Chad and his lovely guests. They truly help with every listen . Keep up the awesome work. It’s reassuring to know we aren’t alone 🌟

Just want to say I appreciate Narcissist Apocalypse it helped me realize I was with a narcissist helped to leave a toxic relationship!!!

I’ve learned so much from all the brave and inspiring stories!

This podcast has helped me to go no contact with a man that I was with for 24 years. We never lived together. He tried to push me into it but there was always something holding me back.

I would really like to share my story of being with a narcissist as these episodes do

I am the mother of a daughter that suffered in the hands of a narcissistic husband. The despair that I felt watching the changes in my daughter were gut wrenching. Narcissism affects the entire family. Listening to your podcast has helped me understand the depth of what she endured. It breaks my heart to know how she was affected by this monster who imprinted on her for 8 years. This podcast has brought more clarity than any book that I have read on the subject. Thank you!

Thank you to the people sharing their stories and to Chad for creating this platform ♥️